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Mentor Network

Walk alongside her

The Mentor Network matches trained, screened mentors with women in rebuilding. This is accompaniment, not rescue. The mentor walks with her — she rebuilds.

I want to be mentored

Request a mentor match based on what you are rebuilding and where you are in the process.

I want to become a mentor

Apply to walk alongside a woman rebuilding her life. Screening, training, and matching provided.

Apply to Become a Mentor

Complete the form below to begin the mentor application process. We will follow up within 5 business days.

By submitting, you agree to receive email communication from the Institute for Women's Rebuilding about your application.

Mentor Categories

Life Transition

Walk with a woman navigating divorce, loss, career change, or major life disruption.

Confidence & Identity

Help a woman separate who she is from what happened to her and rebuild self-trust.

Career

Support career rebuilding — resumes, interviews, networking, direction, and workforce re-entry.

Entrepreneurship

Guide a woman starting or rebuilding a business after a life transition.

Financial Education

Walk through budgeting, credit, saving, and financial planning fundamentals.

Leadership

Develop a woman's leadership capacity — in her family, workplace, and community.

Community

Help a woman find and build relationships that support her rebuilding — not her old patterns.

Legacy

Support a woman defining what she wants to leave behind and building toward it.

Mentor Eligibility

  • 21 years of age or older
  • Stable life circumstances — at least one year of personal stability
  • Professional or lived experience relevant to the mentor category
  • Willingness to complete screening, background check, and training
  • Commitment to at least six months of mentoring (1–2 hours per week)
  • Agreement to the Code of Conduct, Confidentiality Agreement, and Scope of Role Statement

Scope of Role

Mentors May

  • Active listening and encouragement
  • Sharing relevant personal or professional experience when helpful
  • Goal-setting and accountability conversations
  • Connecting mentees to Institute programs and resources
  • Reporting concerns through the supervision process

Mentors Must Not

  • Therapy or clinical counseling
  • Legal advice of any kind
  • Medical advice or health recommendations
  • Financial advice beyond approved financial education materials
  • Crisis intervention (unless the mentor holds formal crisis qualifications and has been formally assigned to that role)
  • Managing a mentee's life, decisions, or relationships

Mentor Training

Six modules completed before matching. Approximately eight hours total.

Module 1

Orientation to the Institute for Women's Rebuilding

Mission, the institution, Seven Pillars, Rebuild OS, and the mentor's place in the ecosystem.

Module 2

The Mentor Role and Its Limits

Scope of role. What mentoring is and is not. Boundary-setting. When to refer.

Module 3

Trauma-Informed Listening

How to listen without fixing. Recognizing trauma responses. Staying in role. Not re-traumatizing.

Module 4

The Matching and Check-In System

How matches are made. Check-in cadence. Documentation. Supervision process.

Module 5

Escalation and Crisis Referral

Recognizing crisis signals. Immediate action protocol. Referral resources. Incident reporting.

Module 6

Cultural Competency and Dignity

Honoring difference. Preserving agency. Avoiding rescue. Cultural and faith sensitivity.

Matching Process

Mentors and mentees complete a matching questionnaire. Matches are made based on:

  • Rebuilding pathway and stage
  • Life experience and background
  • Professional or domain expertise
  • Communication style and availability
  • Mutual expectations and goals
  • Geography (for in-person matches)

Check-In Schedule

Weekly

Mentor-mentee session (1–2 hours)

Monthly

Mentor submits a brief check-in note to supervision

Quarterly

Formal review: goals, progress, match health, renewal

Annually

Full mentor renewal evaluation

Escalation Process

1. Mentor identifies concern and notifies supervisor within 24 hours.

2. Supervisor triages: mentor support, mentee support, or formal incident report.

3. Crisis situations are referred immediately to qualified crisis resources. The mentor does not intervene.

4. Incident reports are reviewed by the program director within 48 hours.

Supervision + Support

Every active mentor has a designated supervisor — a point of contact for questions, concerns, and debriefing.

Monthly mentor check-in calls

Quarterly group debrief sessions

On-demand support between check-ins

Annual mentor gathering and training refresh

Mentor Lifecycle

1Application submitted → Acknowledged within 5 business days
2Screening → Background check, reference calls, interview
3Approval → Training modules assigned
4Training completed → Matching questionnaire
5Match proposed → Both parties review and accept
6Active mentoring → 6-month commitment, renewable
7Match close → Debrief, feedback, next match or pause
8Inactive → Mentor takes a break; eligible to return
9Alumni → Retired from active mentoring; may train or advise

Recognition

First Match

Completion of first six-month mentor match.

Sustained Service

Two years of active mentoring across multiple matches.

Mentor of the Year

Nominated by peers and mentees. Awarded at the Women's Rebuild Summit.

Master Mentor

Five years of service. Eligible to train new mentors.

No Woman Rebuilds Alone

Mentors do not fix, rescue, or direct. They walk alongside. They show up. That is enough to begin.